When I started out this blog, I was a closeted gay guy hung up on sex and love without even knowing the difference between the two. I am glad I’m over that.
I am now out to my closest family and friends. I also have a loving partner whom I’ve been living with for over two years now. My concerns have changed.
I used to like reading gay blogs. Lacking a guide on how to live a healthy gay life, I used to turn to those blogs as a source of information but most of the gay blogs I used to follow concerns and limits themselves with the following:
1) finding love and getting laid
2) drama of being gay
3) partying and getting drunk
4) fashion
5) low art
6) porn
I recently turned 34 and I realized that those listed above are not my main concerns anymore. I am generally concerned with what most adults (gay or otherwise) my age are concerned with. Now, I’m more concerned with
1) having a long-term healthy relationship with my partner
2) financial security
3) investing on health and wellness
4) taking care of family, specifically the aging parents
5) the idea of growing old
Those concerns are not necessarily gay concerns but I think there will be a slight difference for gay guys. Right now, I really don’t know where to start. I’m back in a confused state but with a different list of confusion. This is my blog and this is my attempt to clear out this confusion.
